15 Things Only People With Hair Extensions Will Understand

Alright, ladies, gather around because we need to talk about Remy human hair extensions! Over the years, so many people just don’t get what we go through when wearing extensions. It’s like they have no clue and make all sorts of assumptions. Well, today is the day we’re putting a stop to that!

Hair extensions are one of the best inventions ever, and they just keep improving with time. They’re a game-changer, offering us endless possibilities for styling and transformation. I don’t know about you, but it’s so important for us to stick together on this hair journey, to educate others about what we experience both the highs and the lows. Let’s share the truth about extensions!

That said, let’s be honest some people may never fully understand what it’s like to wear extensions, and that’s perfectly fine. They’re missing out! So, keep reading as I dive into 15 things only those who wear hair extensions can truly relate to.

1. Human Hair Extensions Can Be Expensive

Have you ever had to explain why you spent $500 on your real human hair extensions? It can be one of the most challenging conversations, especially if you’re married and have to justify that big charge on the bank statement.

But let’s be honest we all know that every penny spent on those bundles is totally worth it. If you’re anything like me, you only buy human hair because it’s the best.

Human hair comes directly from someone else’s scalp, so you can treat it just like your own. You can cut, curl, straighten, or style it however you like, without worrying about damage. And because it’s natural, it behaves just like your real hair. So yes, that kind of luxury comes at a price.

What people don’t understand is that we’re not buying new extensions every week. Most of us reuse our hair for months, even up to a year, with proper maintenance. A friend of mine used her extensions for a full year before replacing them, and they still looked great, thanks to regular care.

It’s important to remember that buying human hair extensions isn’t a weekly expense, but rather an investment. If you know how to maintain them properly, you can keep them looking fresh for a long time, which makes them worth every penny.

So, if you’ve spent your hard-earned money on high-quality extensions and you know what you’re doing, don’t let anyone’s judgment get to you. Sometimes, people just don’t get it and that’s okay. You do you, and leave the critics behind!

2. It’s a Process

Getting hair extensions isn’t as simple as buying hair and getting them installed it’s a whole process that requires time, effort, and planning. Just thinking about everything I go through to get them makes me feel a bit exhausted!

First, before buying extensions, I spend a lot of time strategizing. The search begins with browsing social media to find the best hair dealers and comparing prices. Then, I dive into reviews and follow hashtags to see if previous customers were satisfied with their purchases. This entire process can take hours or sometimes even an entire day. But once I find a trustworthy dealer with a great price, I usually stick with them unless something goes wrong.

Choosing the right stylist is another step in the journey. It’s not just about the installation; maintaining the extensions and eventually removing them are all part of the overall process. Extensions aren’t something you can rush through.

From selecting the hair to having it installed and maintained, everything requires careful planning and attention to detail. If you don’t take your time, the result won’t look as great as it should. It’s a process that only those who wear extensions truly understand. But when done right, it’s totally worth the effort!

3. Getting Asked Questions Is Annoying

There are a few questions I get asked about my hair extensions that really get on my nerves. One of the most common ones is, “Where do you find good extensions?” Every time I hear that, I just want to yell, “Find a dealer yourself!” Honestly, there are so many places and people selling extensions that it feels like I shouldn’t have to share my source every time someone asks.

But because I know that finding the right extensions can be a challenge, I usually tell them my hair came from HazuHair and then quickly change the subject! If you let people keep talking, they’ll start asking about your whole hair care routine, and honestly, I can’t give away all my secrets. I mean, a little mystery is part of the fun, right?

Another question that drives me crazy is, “Is that your real hair?” I honestly thought we moved past this question a long time ago! It’s not just annoying to me it bothers a lot of people. Most of us don’t want to lie about wearing extensions, but we also want them to look so flawless that people assume it’s our natural hair.

When they start asking, it tells me they’re not sure, so I guess I’m doing something right! But even though I love how great they look, I have to be honest and tell them that sadly, it’s not my real hair. Still, the fact that they ask means my extensions are convincing enough to spark curiosity, so I know I’m on the right track.

4. You’re Always Doing Your Hair

People often don’t realize that even though our natural hair isn’t being styled, it doesn’t mean we’ve stopped taking care of it. In fact, having hair extensions often means we spend even more time maintaining and styling our hair. One of the most important things we have to do is ensure that our extensions blend seamlessly with our natural hair. It’s not just about the extensions themselves – we have to be extra careful about the way everything flows together, so it looks natural and flawless.

One of the most dreaded situations in the hair extension world is going out in public and suddenly realizing your frontal is loose or your leave-out is showing. If you’ve ever had this happen, you know how frustrating and embarrassing it can be. That’s why, whenever we pass a mirror, it’s almost second nature to stop and check our hair. We do this multiple times a day to make sure everything is in place, because we want to avoid any wardrobe malfunctions with our hair at all costs!

When it comes to our morning routine, it’s rarely a “wake up and go” kind of situation. Many of us have to spend extra time curling, straightening, or styling our hair each day to get it just right. We can’t simply go to bed and wake up with flawless hair – that’s a luxury we don’t have. Whether it’s making sure the curls hold, touching up the straightness, or ensuring everything is perfectly blended, maintaining hair extensions is a commitment.

But despite all the time and effort it takes, we don’t mind at all. We love the look and versatility that extensions bring. Yes, it’s a process, but we’re all about the results – the confidence that comes from having hair that’s styled and flawless every day. And honestly, we wouldn’t have it any other way.

5. You Must Be Gentle When Brushing

One of the funniest, yet most crucial parts of having hair extensions is brushing them. It’s not as simple as just grabbing a brush and going to town – no, we have to approach it with care and precision! Brushing isn’t as straightforward as people might think, especially when you have extensions.

We all know the importance of starting from the bottom and working our way up slowly, but not everyone gets why that’s necessary. If you’ve ever had extensions, you understand that brushing requires a bit of finesse. Going too fast can lead to tension, especially if it’s a sew-in that’s integrated with our natural hair. Pulling too roughly can create unwanted stress on both our real hair and the extensions.

Another reason we have to be extra careful is if we’re wearing a lace frontal. The last thing we want is for the wig to slip back or become loose. A sudden tug can cause the frontal to shift, leading to breakage and the loss of edges – something we definitely want to avoid!

For those of us with long extensions, brushing becomes part of the daily routine since long hair tends to tangle easily. It’s something we deal with constantly, making brushing a frequent but necessary step. If your extensions aren’t as long, you might be off the hook for this daily ritual, but for most extension wearers, brushing is just something we’ve come to accept as part of the process.

In time, it becomes second nature. We learn how to brush without causing damage, making it an effortless part of our daily hair care.

6. Shower Caps Are a BFF

Have you ever been out of town or away from home, and you ask someone for a shower cap, only for them to look at you like you’ve lost your mind? It happens more often than you’d think! The reason? Some people just don’t get how crucial it is to keep our extensions away from water.

Whether we’re headed to a date, a meeting, or out with friends, the last thing any of us wants is to get our expensive extensions wet. Wet hair extensions can ruin the texture, cause tangling, and seriously shorten their lifespan. That’s why if you’re a pro at wearing extensions, you’ve probably learned to carry a shower cap with you when traveling, especially if you’re heading to a place where you can’t guarantee access to one.

It’s not just about being careful; it’s about being prepared. Extensions are an investment, and we can’t afford to take any chances when it comes to protecting them. Whether we’re in a hotel or at a friend’s house, keeping our hair dry is top priority. You never know when you might need to protect your hair from humidity, sudden rain, or even a quick shower.

And let’s not forget about silk bonnets, which are just as essential in our hair care arsenal. A silk bonnet helps prevent friction, reduces frizz, and ensures our extensions stay smooth and intact overnight. Between shower caps and silk bonnets, we’ve got the perfect tools to keep our hair looking flawless at all times, no matter where we are.

7. Dry Shampoo is a Game Changer

One of the best reasons many people choose to wear hair extensions is the extra time it gives us especially when it comes to managing our hair. With natural hair, we’re often tied to a whole routine focused around wash day. But with extensions, wash day becomes a thing of the past. In fact, most extension wearers want absolutely nothing to do with it.

That’s where dry shampoo comes in it’s a total lifesaver! Dry shampoo allows us to skip the whole wash day hassle and still keep our hair looking fresh. Sure, we’ll eventually have to wash it, but dry shampoo helps extend the time between washes, making our hair care routine way easier.

The beauty of dry shampoo is that it’s as simple as spraying it onto your scalp and hair, and just like that, your hair feels clean and refreshed again. For those who are always on the go, many hair care brands even offer travel-sized versions, so you can keep a can in your purse or bag.

Imagine rushing out the door on a busy day, and suddenly you realize your hair is starting to itch. No worries just spray some dry shampoo right in the car, and you’re good to go. It’s like a quick fix for those moments when you need to freshen up without having to worry about wet hair or missing a beat in your day.

8. Looking Hot Is Worth the Sweat

If you wear hair extensions, you know the struggle of dealing with excessive sweating under all that hair, but guess what? It’s worth it because we look cute! It’s kind of like those who wear heels they may be in pain from their feet, but they’re not taking those heels off because they’re rocking their look.

The same goes for us with hair extensions. Even on the hottest days of summer, when temperatures soar, we’re still out there with our flawless extensions. Sure, it might be a thousand degrees outside, but when it comes to looking fabulous, we make it work.

Sometimes, achieving a certain level of beauty requires a little sacrifice. The sweat and discomfort? It’s part of the deal if you want to look fabulous. And let’s be real, if you’ve got a lace front wig on, as soon as you walk through the door, it’s coming off because comfort always wins at home!

But in the meantime, we power through because, at the end of the day, looking good is the priority even if it means sweating a little more than usual.

9. Hair Touching Is a No-Go

One thing I’m learning in life is the importance of saying “NO,” especially when it comes to personal boundaries. And if you’re wearing hair extensions, one of the most important boundaries to set is around people touching your hair.

It may seem harmless to some, but for those of us rocking extensions, hair touching is simply off limits. First off, we don’t want anyone getting too close and trying to figure out if it’s real or a weave. When someone touches your hair, it feels like an invasion of privacy, and let’s be honest, it can be awkward.

We also don’t know if they’ll mess up the blend between our natural hair and extensions, which is a big deal. The last thing we want is for a track or any visible leave-out to show. To prevent that kind of disaster, it’s better to just avoid the situation altogether. Trust me, I don’t want anyone messing with my flawless Spanish Wave hair!

Moreover, if you’ve put any hair product or perfume in your hair, it’s not something you want to have ruined either. A simple touch can mess up the whole vibe and effort you’ve put in. Too many things can go wrong in just a few seconds, so it’s really just not worth it.

Setting boundaries around our hair might seem like a small thing, but it’s essential for protecting both the style and the time we’ve invested in it. So, next time someone tries to touch your hair, just remember: it’s okay to say no!

10.The Liberating Feeling of Removing Extensions

We all know how much we love rocking our hair extensions, but there’s something just as satisfying about the moment when it’s time to remove them. It’s honestly a feeling of liberation that you can’t quite put into words.

Once the extensions come out, your natural hair is free again, and it’s like a weight has been lifted. You feel like you’ve just accomplished something big, as though you’ve reclaimed a piece of yourself. It’s a sensation of freedom, almost like you’re ready to take on the world.

There’s nothing quite like the sensation of touching your scalp after months of having extensions in place. It’s a feeling most people don’t fully appreciate, especially when you’re able to wash your hair without worrying about tracks or blends. The simple act of cleansing your scalp and feeling it breathe is incredibly refreshing.

But, let’s be real – even though we enjoy the freedom, we don’t stay free for long. It’s not long before we’re ready to get another fresh install. It’s like a cycle: you remove them, enjoy the break, and then can’t wait to have a new set of extensions put back in. No one can hold a true hair extension lover down for too long!

For those wearing frontals, make sure to use a Safe Lace Paste Remover to gently take them off. The right product helps preserve the health of both your hair and the extensions, ensuring a smoother removal process. It’s all about balance taking care of your natural hair while enjoying the beauty and convenience of extensions.

11. The Nerve-Racking Process of Coloring Extensions

While hair extensions give you the flexibility to switch up your style, some of us crave even more transformation, which leads us to coloring our hair. A fresh color can completely change your look, giving you that top-of-the-world feeling.

However, coloring hair extensions can be a bit daunting. The idea of adding color to hair that you’ve already invested so much money into can be nerve-wracking. If you’re opting for bleach or a permanent color, you’re committing to that shade for the long haul, which is not something to take lightly.

There have been plenty of moments when I’ve been nervous about the color process. Let’s be real, coloring hair extensions is a risk. We’ve already spent hundreds of dollars on those luscious locks, and now, we have to trust someone with the application. The idea of messing up the color can be a huge stress factor, especially if you’re not sure what you’re going to end up with.

Another worry is whether or not you’ll even like the color once it’s applied. It can be hard to visualize how the new shade will look on your hair extensions, and there’s always that little voice in the back of your head wondering if you made the right choice.

Despite these concerns, we still go for it because, let’s face it, hair color has the power to transform your entire look. So, while coloring extensions can be intimidating, it’s a risk we’re willing to take in exchange for a bold, new style. Just make sure to get inspiration from the right sources, and consider ponytail hairstyle ideas for different ways to wear your newly colored extensions!

12. Patting Your Head: A Necessary Habit for Extension Wearers

Even today, people often look at us strangely when we find ourselves patting our heads in the grocery line or elsewhere. It’s a normal habit for anyone wearing hair extensions, but not everyone understands why we do it.

Those who don’t wear extensions don’t realize the complexity of managing multiple tracks, product buildup, and other challenges that come with wearing extensions. Scratching your scalp can be a risky move, as it can lead to dandruff showing or, worse, a track popping out. This is why patting your head is a safer option it helps alleviate the itch without causing any hair mishaps.

The truth is, excessive product buildup is a nightmare to deal with, and the last thing you want is to make a scene by scratching your scalp. By patting your head gently, you can avoid revealing any unwanted buildup or loose extensions. It’s just one of those things that extension wearers understand, even if others don’t.

What people don’t see is the constant struggle we go through to keep everything in place. We don’t just pat our heads for fun we’re often holding off until it’s wash day, when we can properly clean our scalp and hair. So, while others may give us strange looks, we know that this little action is necessary to keep our hair looking its best. It’s a small price to pay for flawless extensions!

13. Extensions and Rain: A Recipe for Disaster

As I’ve mentioned before, shower caps are our best friend, and the same principle applies when it comes to rain. For those of us wearing hair extensions, any form of water is something we avoid at all costs.

Just the thought of rain is enough to make us nervous. It’s already a hassle to wash our extensions, a process that takes ages, and we definitely can’t afford any extra wetness from the rain ruining our look. Even a little bit of moisture can cause our extensions to lose their shape or become frizzy.

Without an umbrella or hoodie, the risk of rain soaking our hair is high, and the aftermath can be even worse. Whether it’s damp hair that takes forever to dry or frizz that ruins the sleek look, neither option is ideal. Honestly, it’s a toss-up on which is worse!

That’s why you’ll often spot people covering their hair with bags or other makeshift covers in public when it starts to rain. We’re just trying to protect our investments! With hair extensions, protecting them from the rain is no joke. It’s all about keeping our hair looking perfect, even when the weather isn’t cooperating!

14. The Emotional Attachment to Hair Extensions

Only those who wear hair extensions truly understand the emotional connection that comes with them. Some days, we may feel down, but once we get our extensions installed, we suddenly feel invincible. They lift our spirits and give us the confidence to take on the world.

Even when our extensions start to show signs of age, we still feel attached to them. The thought of taking them out brings up a mix of emotions, as we aren’t ready to let go. We know they may not look as fresh, but the idea of parting with them feels like a personal loss.

It’s a bit like when your best friend visits from out of town. You have an amazing time together, creating lasting memories and taking plenty of photos, because you know the time is coming when you’ll have to say goodbye. The anticipation of that moment makes you want to hold onto every second.

The same goes for hair extensions! We don’t want to take them out and start the process all over again. It’s a bittersweet moment reluctantly removing them feels like ending a chapter, but we also know we’ll get to enjoy the excitement of a new install soon. In the end, it’s that mix of attachment and anticipation that makes the journey of wearing extensions so special.

15. Beauty Always Wins

After spending hundreds of dollars on hair extensions and going through the lengthy process of caring for them, there always comes a moment of reflection. And in that moment, we realize one thing: beauty always wins.

There’s something almost magical that happens when we wear hair extensions. Despite all the effort and endurance required to maintain them, we keep going because the reward is worth it. Beauty, after all, doesn’t come easy, and we’re willing to pay the price for it.

Honestly, I find it hard to resist a good human hair bundle deal. There’s just something irresistible about getting a great offer on something that will elevate our look. Some people would do anything to look their best, even if it means going the extra mile to achieve it.

And let’s not forget, even those who don’t wear hair extensions still face the same challenges when it comes to beauty. Everyone has their own beauty needs, and we all go to great lengths to fulfill them.

If we could all wake up every day looking flawless, we would. But until that happens, we continue to embrace the tools that help us get closer to perfection. For now, we ride the extension bus, knowing that, in the end, beauty always wins!

We Will Stand Together

We’ve come to the end of this journey, and if you’re wondering why some people don’t quite understand hair extensions, it’s because this experience is something only we truly get. As I’ve shared before, there’s a price we pay for beauty, and not everyone sees the effort behind it.

Some may not understand why we’re patting our heads, why touching our hair is off-limits, or even why we’re willing to endure the heat if it means looking cute. Honestly, sometimes we don’t even fully understand it ourselves! But then there are those moments like when we walk past a mirror in Target and catch a glimpse of how amazing we look.

That’s when we know the entire journey with hair extensions is totally worth it. Every effort, every decision, and every struggle holds its own meaning.

If you’re someone who frequently wears hair extensions, do you agree with what I’ve shared? Did I miss anything? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

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